Changes….

Posted by on Aug 24, 2010 in Cool Art, Emotions, Grief, Loss and Letting Go, Spirituality | Comments Off on Changes….

The sun shines and warms and lights us and we have no curiosity to know why this is so; but we ask the reason of all evil, of pain, and hunger, and mosquitoes and silly people. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson I’ve been reflecting lately on changes and illusions and all that happens as we age (even if we don’t grow up), all that happens as we grow and change and how much of life is how we see it.  In the pic above, do you see two old folks,  do you see the vase, do you see the woman coming through the doorway, do you see the young people?   It all changes as your viewpoint changes.  So much...

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The Mountain Remains…

Posted by on Aug 2, 2010 in Emotions, Grief, Happiness, Loss and Letting Go, ponderings, Spirituality | 5 comments

I am always with all beings, I abandon no one.  And however great your inner darkness, you are never separate from Me.   Let your thoughts flow past you calmly.  Keep Me near, at every moment.  Trust Me with your life, because I Am you, more than you yourself are… ~~~Bhagavad Gita I spent the last few days with my parental units, in a little town in Southeast Missouri.  This is an area I blogged about last week when I was thinking of my grandmother and my memories of smells, heaven and so on.  Lest I sound too romantic, the other reality is that this area located in the buckle of the...

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Forgiveness, Metta & Priorities

Posted by on Jul 29, 2010 in Emotions, Grief, Loss and Letting Go, prayers, Spirituality | Comments Off on Forgiveness, Metta & Priorities

Good morning, Happy Thursday! 🙂 I’ve had several conversations today about priorities, forgiveness and how making forgiveness a priority  is such an integral part of the journey and a good life.  Forgiveness comes from words meaning “allow,” and literally means “for giving.”   Everyone I’ve talked to today is having such a rough time, and there is a lot of emotion swirling around.  All of this got me thinking about feelings and what we do with them, and about for-giving. I think when we forgive we give up the sense of being a victim so we can set ourselves...

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Showers of Mercy

Posted by on Jul 28, 2010 in Emotions, Grief, Loss and Letting Go, prayers, Spirituality | Comments Off on Showers of Mercy

I’ve gotten a few 911 calls this morning from people in crisis or pain.  This is such a deep time for people, it seems like everyone I know and most of my clients are in some kind of relationship shift, some kind of  transition or deep grief.   Lots of people are sick, lots of things are in a big transition.  I am acutely aware of the pains and joys of the people in my inner circle and beyond…aware that like the breath rising and falling, life ebbs and flows, ever moving into something new and different.  But the memories linger, the hopes and dreams and hurts and forgiveness...

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Object Impermanence

Posted by on Jul 25, 2010 in Emotions, Happiness, Loss and Letting Go, ponderings, Spirituality | Comments Off on Object Impermanence

Today I am thinking of Jean Piaget and his theory about object permanence. As you may remember from your college psych 101 class,  Jean Piaget  theorized that the role of maturation was instrumental in a child’s increasing capacity to understand their world.  Put another way,  we cannot undertake certain tasks until we are psychologically mature enough to do so.    For those of you who didn’t make it to class that day, or had more sense than to major in psych and minor in Eastern philosophy,  here’s the bottom line:  Jean Piaget had a bazillion theories about the cognitive...

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Merton & the Path

Posted by on Jul 21, 2010 in Loss and Letting Go, Spirituality | Comments Off on Merton & the Path

This morning I am thinking about Thomas Merton. For the uninitiated,  Thomas Merton was one of the great mystics of our time.  A Trappist monk and  a prolific writer, in his later years he connected with Buddhist teachers and declared them brothers in contemplation.   His autobiography, Seven Storey Mountain,  is a road map, his own experience with starting off as an atheist and becoming a monk.   Merton spent 13 years of silent meditation at the Abbey of Gethsemani, praying for God’s will.  He came out and wrote this: My God, I have no idea where I am going.  I do not see the road...

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